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Grateful for an Unequaled Wife

I have been listening to the marriage conference held at Southern Seminary recently online at night with Emily and have been reminded that I, as a husband, have not been faithfully cherishing my wife as I ought. I was greatly challenged by C.J. Mahaney's message that stated the importance to have regular scheduled opportunities for uplifting your spouse and giving her a chance to get away from the mother personality for a short time. I was also challenged by listening to Dr. Russell Moore's message about fighting for your marriage like Christ stood against the Enemy for our good out of his steadfast love.

I as a husband have been blessed with the most unequaled wife of all. There is no other woman on the planet who can come close to Emily Ruth Wynn and I need not look any further than her. She is always utterly encouraging to me and her wonderful love in my life challenges me to be the man God has called me to be. There are several things that I love about Emily. One of the things I love most about Emily is the way that she really wants our marriage to be Christ-centered. Emily is always committed to following my leadership even when I am not the best leader...and for this I am greatly humbled. For me, to be a more obedient and joyful follower of Christ, I simply need to watch my wife and follow her example. Its such a privilege to be married to the most beautiful, most thoughtful, most encouraging, most zealous, and most humble woman.

Each day I understand more deeply the amazing grace that God gave me when He brought Emily into my life. If I had only known back in college the amazing woman that was before me in Emily, we would have been married long ago. Its such a blessing seeing Emily go from being a single girl to putting up with my old self in marriage for two years and then becoming a full time mother last October. Emily has proved to be a Proverbs 31 woman and I am so incredibly blessed to have her as my wife.

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